I went to Maine in January because that was when I could get the time off.
Friends from Kenya and Nigeria were in graduate programmes at the University of Maine — the particular path that brings people from East and West Africa into the cold interior of New England through the logic of academic scholarships that do not ask what month you will arrive. I had been meaning to visit. January was the window. I took it.
Everyone who heard about the plan had the same reaction: January. Maine. You know what that is.
I knew what that was in the way I had known what a hurricane was before Sandy — correctly, in my head, but not yet in my body. I had been through a Missouri winter at Fort Leonard Wood during basic training, which had been cold in the particular way of a flat inland expanse with wind across it. Maine in January is a different argument. It is cold that has accumulated conviction.
The snow was the first thing. Not the snow itself — though the quantity was genuinely difficult to process, ploughed walls of it taller than I was along every road — but what the snow did to the architecture of outdoor life. It did not cancel outdoor life. People were outside, moving through it, dressed for it, unbothered. The snow was not an event. It was the condition. You lived inside the condition.
What I found inside it was relief.
My friends from Kenya and Nigeria, in their university-issue winter coats, in apartments heated to a temperature reasonable in Nairobi, were the most relaxing company I had been in since arriving in America. Not because they were remarkable people, though they were. Because in their presence I could stop performing legibility.
I stayed two to three weeks. Long enough to understand the Maine winter as condition rather than event. Long enough to walk in snow up to my knees and find that I enjoyed it — the silence it created, the specific quality of cold air in a pine forest that has no equivalent in any equatorial experience I had brought with me, or in the flat Missouri cold of basic training.
I had gone to Maine to see my people. I found them, and I found also the snow, and in the combination something I have not found in the same form anywhere else: the suspension of the outsider tax in conditions that were themselves foreign to me. I was a stranger to the climate. My friends were strangers to the climate. We were strangers together, which is a different thing than being strangers separately.
The most foreign I have felt in America was the warmest I have felt in America. Both were in Maine. Both were January.
These notes were made between June 2011 and the present.
I started writing them down in 2026.
The gap is not an absence — it is the difference between experiencing something
and understanding it well enough to put it on a page.